NTT Short Story
This short story is from one of fellow blogger Kevinβs previous No Theme Thursday images.

Living in Duluth has its pros and cons, but that afternoon at the shop, I couldnβt think of too many pros. The December light was thin and the sky, like most days, a slate gray.
Out in the yard, through the grimy shop windows, was my inventory: three acres of junked cars. They were covered with snow and here and there were oily puddles.
The walkie talkie at the end of the counter squawked and I picked it up. βYeah, Mal,β I said. βWhatcha got?β
My tow truck driver spoke. βAn old Ford pickup, late 40s or early 50s. It was in a barn. Somebody bought the place and they want it gone. You want it?β
I thought for a second. Most of my pick-and-pull cars were less than ten years old. I wasnβt sure whoβd want parts from a car that old, but it might be interesting. βYeah, sure,β I said. βIβll take it.β
β10-4,β said Mal. βBe there in a few.β

The flashing orange lights on the top of Malβs wrecker announced his arrival. I put on my heavy winter coat and went out to meet him. He drove around the yard, behind the junkers, and pulled up in front of the office. He got out and lit a smoke.
He started to say something, but I was no longer listening. The orange lights flashed in my face, but I barely noticed. The years fell away as I looked at what he had brought me.
Little Red.

It had started earlier that year, in spring. It began with simple things: Misplaced keys, a forgotten appointment. Nobody got too excited; when youβre 73, it comes with the territory.
But when I started forgetting names, blanking out, having trouble with my hands, my daughter Deanna insisted on taking me to the doctor.
They poked and prodded, showed me cards with words and pictures, asked me to repeat things theyβd told me. I noticed a few glances.
They sent me to Northside hospital and as I laid on my back inside the MRI machine with the clunking and banging, I wondered how it had come to this.

It was the summer of β69 and a different kind of day in Duluth, a warm June afternoon. The wind was from the east and I could smell the clean smell from Lake Superior. Dandelions moved in the wind, but I was focused on something else.

I looked doubtfully at the pickup. It was dented and rusted, and the engine ran roughly. When I tugged on the throttle cable, the engine revved and I heard some pinging noises.
Mr. Turner stood by as I lifted covers and ran my fingers under things. I may have only been 17, but Iβd worked on cars enough to know my way around. He lit his pipe with a silver lighter.
βSo?β he finally asked. His cheeks went in and out as he got his pipe going. βItβs always done me right. A little body compound, some paint, and itβll be good as new.β
I finished and wiped my hands on a rag. βI dunno,β I said. βSeems to be leaking fluid from the head somewhere and the valves sound funny. Iβm thinking it needs a lot of work.β
He looked at me, then the engine, and blew out a cloud of blue smoke. βOK, tell ya what. Youβre a good kid, I know your folks. A hundred bucks and itβs yours.β He pointed the pipe at me. βYouβll not do any better.β
We shook and I handed him five twenties. Little Red was mine.

I sat with Deanna in Doctor Gottdeinerβs office. He looked uncomfortable. Uh oh.
He swiveled his computer monitor so we could see. He pointed. βSee this area here? And here?β He looked at us. βClassic atrophy of the hippocampus. No questions. Iβm afraid, Mr. Starnes, that you have middle-stage Alzheimerβs.β
Deanna gripped my knee tightly.

When youβre working on cars, it certainly helps if your dad owns a junkyard. My twenty-year old pickup had a lot of relatives on our lot and I swapped out so many parts that I practically created a new engine and drive train.
That whole summer, I worked on Little Red in between making runs in the tow truck for Dad. Most of our inventory were involved in accidents; others stopped running and fixing them wasnβt worth it. Some were simply abandoned.
But regardless of how we ended up with them, I had this weird ability to sit in a car and get an instant read on things. Flashes of images, sounds, smells⦠they told me much. Some were happy vibes; families on trips, young people on a date. Others were more neutral, trips back and forth to work, shopping.
But others were darker. I felt fear, anger. I never knew what had happened, but these gave me the creeps.
But with Little Red, it was different. The first time I sat in her at Mr. Turnerβs, I got absolutely nothing. I waited, but it was just a comfortable silence. It was like the past had been erased, a blackboard wiped with a damp cloth. Little Red and me were starting from scratch and I loved her for that.

By early August, Mr. Turnerβs prediction had come true. I buffed the last bit of turtle wax from the fender and stood back; the change was nothing less than remarkable. In the late afternoon, the soft lighting made her look like a glossy ad in a showroom brochure.
I heard Dad come up behind me. He put his hand on my shoulder and we had a moment. He sat in it and noted all my personalizations; the hang ten accelerator and parking brake. The Hurst shifting knob. The AM/FM radio and the Kenwood speakers.
He got out and patted me on the shoulder before heading inside for dinner. βProud of you, Dylan,β he said.

By the time I saw Little Red on that gray December afternoon after all those years, I was really beginning to struggle with things. Faces, names. Iβd forgotten how to play the piano. People would tell me something and if I didnβt write it down, Iβd immediately forget.
I was becoming frustrated, irritable; little things were setting me off. I didnβt know how much longer I was going to be able to run my salvage business.
But as I looked at Little Red in the flashing orange light, peace filled me. I remembered summer days in the salvage yard on my back, pulling pieces off of other Ford pickups. My tinny little transistor radio picked up KQDS, and they played my favorite songs.
As Mal watched, I opened the driverβs side door; pine needles and papers fell out. The bench seat was mildewed and torn and there were empty booze bottles on the floor. I slid behind the wheel and grasped it at the ten oβclock and two oβclock positions.
I was not prepared for what happened next.

The summer of 1969 was a honeymoon for me and Little Red. We drove all the way around Lake Superior, 1300 miles, and not one hiccup. I camped under the stars in Little Redβs bed.
Things got even better that year. When school started, I asked out Kristy Sorensen. She was way out of my league, but she accepted my invitation to go see Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid.
Somehow, Little Red calmed me down on our first date and I guess I made enough of an impression on Kristy that we had a second, then a third date. We walked by the lake, holding hands, and talked until late in the night about many things, deep things. We started going steady and realized we had something special. The first time for both of us happened that October.

We were parked by a seawall overlooking Lake Superior; there was a beautiful sunset. We talked until the autumn stars came out. Our song came on and our kisses became more hungry, urgent; I reached behind the seat for a big checkered quilt I kept back there. She laughed as I wrapped us in its musty embrace.
Far overhead, we heard the faint honking of migrating geese as they called to each other.
I looked down at Kristy, faint in the light of the radio. βThey mate for life, you know,β I said.
She smiled at me that smile I loved for the next 39 years. There was never any doubt. βHonk, honk,β she said and kissed the end of my nose.

When I put my hands on Little Redβs steering wheel, I marveled that nothing had changed; that tiny crack behind the wheel at 10 oβclock was still there, instantly recognizable. I shifted in my seat.
I felt it at first, more than seeing or hearing it; a low thrumming sound from somewhere deep inside, a flywheel slowly turning over. The pitch increased and I felt a warmth in my chest. For a moment, I was scared; was I having a heart attack?
The warmth spread up to my head and my eyes watered. I saw colors, vivid colors; the flashing orange lights from Malβs tow truck were almost unbearable. My ears crackled like they do on a descending airplane followed by a whine. Panic began to rise.
But then it all quieted and I heard a voice, a familiar, beloved voice that I had not heard for almost twenty years.
Dylan. Youβre OK. Itβs me.
Kristy.

Doctor Gottdeiner swiveled his computer screen back toward his side of the desk. He looked concerned and sorrowful.
βWeβll start him on Aricept right away,β he said. βThat might slow the progression of the disease. But nothing will stop it, Iβm afraid.β The way they spoke like I wasnβt even there was troubling; I might just as well already be in a nursing home.
Deanna dabbed her eyes with a tissue. βWhatβ¦ what can we expect?β she asked. βI mean, how longββ
Doctor Gottdeiner interrupted her. βEvery case is different. Memory, cognitive abilities, motor skills. Thereβs just no way to predict.β
He looked at me. βDylan,β he said. βIf there are any bucket list items you want to do, do them.β
Deanna cried and blew her nose.

Kristy and I got married on a bright June afternoon in 1970 as soon as we graduated.
My folks helped us buy a little two-bedroom house not far out of town and we broke it in properly; no room was overlooked, although some were more comfortable than others.
Little Red was well-known around Duluth and everywhere we went, Kristyβs St. Bernard Wowser went with us. He liked to lean out of the bed on the driverβs side; I could see him in the side mirror, his cheeks flapping comically and his drool plastering the tailgate.
The years flew by. Dad made me a partner at the junkyard and business was good. In 1975, Deanna came along, followed by Meg in 1978 and Steve in 1980.
We bought a bigger house and things were going greatβ¦ until they werenβt. We were hit hard by both the market crash of 1987 and the savings and loan crisis. Business dropped off and we were behind in our mortgage. We had only one option.
I placed an ad in Autotrader magazine and calls soon started coming in left and right. It was a sad day as a guy from St. Cloud drove off in Little Red. Kristy looked up at me and I wordlessly handed her the check.
I felt like part of me had died.

Kristyβs voice in my mind spoke again.
Iβm here. Iβve never left you. I just didnβt have a way to reach you.
My head swam. βI gotta get outta here,β I said to no one. βI think I need to see Doctor Gottdeiner.β I reached for the handle.
Mated for lifeβ¦wasnβt that the deal?
I stopped. βWhatβ?β
Oh baby, Iβm sorry I went away. I hated to leave you and the kids.
I wasnβt sure if I was now getting delusions, or if Little Red was stirring up memories. But I was pretty sure I wasnβt really hearing my wife whoβd passed away in 2008.
I shook my head and looked at myself in the rear view mirror. No blood anywhere, nothing noticeable. I laughed nervously. βWell, Iβm just gonnaββ
Remember our first house? Our wedding night and how we broke the kitchen table?
I was startled. βBut wait a second,β I said. βIβve got that memory, too. How do I know youβre not imaginary, part of my disease?β I felt ridiculous but I couldnβt stop.
Think about it. Did you really remember? Or had you forgotten?
I thought. She was right. I had forgotten.

That night I had dreams. Wild, vivid dreams that spanned my entire life; faces, scenes, places. But there were gaps, like a film that had been over-edited with redacted subtitles. I struggled to think of names to put with the faces, or when or why I was at one place or another.
I woke up in a sweat with the weak December sun shining through the window. As I reached for my glass of water, I noticed next to it the framed photograph of Kristy and me in Little Red. I picked it up and looked at; we were very young, probably still newlyweds. Behind us in the bed of the truck was a St. Bernard.
For a moment, I smiled. There he wasβ¦ good oldβ . My stomach sank. Good oldβ
Damn, I know him! Thatβs β
His name remained tantalizingly out of reach. Oh for shitβs sake, Iβd cleaned his drool off the tailgate a hundred times. His name wasβ
Panic gripped me. I threw off the covers and jumped barefoot onto the cold floor. βKristy!β I shouted, circling the room. βKristy! Help me!β Everything became blurry, like the tilt-a-whirl at the state fair, as I tried and tried to think of that damn dogβs name.
I finally gave up; I had to find out. I ran outside in my bathrobe and slippers; the shin-deep snow crunched underfoot as I ran to my car.
In under five minutes, I was alone in the junkyard standing next to Little Red. I reached for the door handle but stopped; I realized this was gonna be something I couldnβt unsee, unhear. But I had to know.
I slid into the mildewed interior and put my hands on the wheel.
Wowser.

I didnβt dare mention any of this to Deanna; it would have certainly meant more tests, more consultations, perhaps being stuck in a nursing home.
But as memories and names continued to drift away, and my confusion increased in the real world, they became more crisp, clear, sitting in Little Red. I donβt know how; but it was like comparing a black-and-white TV with rabbit ears to a 50β high-def TV with cable.
Plus there was Kristy.
We talked for hours about nothing, everything. I didnβt realize how much I had missed her the past 18 years. Getting into Little Red was like crawling into a warm bed on a bitterly cold winter night.
We recalled our young years, just starting out, crazy in love. The birth of our kids, each little step forward in life, just like the board game. The eventual loss of our parents, our kids growing up and two of them moving away.
We talked about her diagnosis, the treatments, the hopes that were raised and dashed with each new set of tests. The kids standing around her bedside, her weak, pain-wracked body threatening to fly apart with each paroxysm of coughing. Her closing her eyes for the last time at 55.
I told her all the things I always meant to say but never did.
And she did the same as Little Redβs dashboard became blurry.

I was now living in Little Red. I brought food and a thermos of coffee, pillows and blankets and slept in her. Mal was the only one who knew what I was doing and he brought me supplies three days a week.

By March, I could sense something coming. I had gotten to the point where I dared not even drive my car. On St. Patrickβs Day, I drove to my house, less than a mile away. On the way back, I got lost and it took me a panicky hour to find the junkyard. I scrambled into Little Red, breathless and scared out of my mind.
Migrating geese heralded the coming of another spring and living in Little Red became much more comfortable. I had Mal put in a new battery so at least the radio and the dome light worked.
In early April, the radio announced the impending arrival of a late-season blizzard; people were encouraged to stock up on things. Mal brought me double rations. He looked at me in concern.
βDylan,β he said. βIβve never asked what crazy shit is going on here, but Iβm worried, man. Theyβre saying two, maybe three feet. I may not be able to get out here for a week or more. Are you sure you donβt want me to run you home?β
I looked at him; Iβd known him most of my life. He was a good guy, kind and honest. The gray stubble on his face and creases around his eyes reflected a life of hard work.
βNaw, Iβm OK Mal,β I said. βIβm sure Iβll be fine. But thanks, appreciate it.β
He looked me for several seconds, then double tapped the door frame with his hand. His ring made a clink sound on the metal.
βOK, my friend,β he said. βIβll get back here to check on you as soon as I can.β

On April 3rd, the blue Minnesota skies gave way to an ominous squall line coming over the lake. By sunset, the front had moved in, dropping the temperatures to well below zero. Snow began falling softly, silently. It was exhilarating in a way: I was snug in Little Red; I had my fresh supplies; and I had Kristy and the folks at KQDS for company.
Around midnight, the wind picked up. It howled the rest of the night and the snow flew. When daybreak came, it was still snowing. Around 4 oβclock that afternoon, the radio, dome light and windshield wipers stopped working; my battery was dead. I sat in silence as the sun sank into a crimson horizon. Red sky at night.
I lit a candle to generate some heat, but it went out sometime in the wee hours. As the temperature dropped, I got more and more sleepy. The last thing I remember was hunkering down under my quilts, with the smell that reminded me about that first time with Kristy.

I awoke to a brilliant, frigid morning with deep indigo skies. It was strange; I expected to be freezing, my nose and fingers stinging, my breath coming out in the cab in white clouds. But nothing.
I stepped outside and looked around in awe. The weather people were not wrong; there was at least three feet of snow blanketing everything and an absolute hushed silence. It was like being alone in an cathedral.
I squinted and looked at the sun; it had dazzling double rings around it. I couldnβt remember what caused it. I wasnβt even sure where I was; I was standing next to a pickup truck that I vaguely remembered. All around me were junked cars with three feet of snow on them. I felt panic rising.

A voice called: βDylan.β
I looked and standing about twenty feet away was a woman with her back to the sun. She was achingly beautiful and I knew her from somewhere, I just couldnβt remember where or when. She held out her hand: come.
I hesitated, suddenly suspicious: Who was this? What did she want from me? But something urged me on. I made my way to her with surprising ease; there wasnβt even any crunching sound of snow.
When I got to her, I looked at her face; it was shining. Her eyes were blazing and she seemed to be enveloped in light. She wiggled her hand: come.
In wonder, I reached out and grasped her outstretched hand and at that instant everything came flooding back. βKristyβ¦β I said. Since Little Redβs return, Iβd never seen her in the flesh; Iβd only heard her voice in my head. βHowββ
βShhh,β she said gently. βCome with me.β
We turned and walked through the snow toward the sun with its twin halos of light. Kristy turned to me and smiled. βItβs OK, sweetheart,β she said. βItβs all OK now.β
And as I felt my feet lifting free of the snow, I took a final look back at Little Red.
Funny, no footprints anywhere.

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Brother, this was incredibly moving. Tender, haunting, and full of heart. The way memory, love, and loss weave together through Little Red stayed with me long after reading. Beautifully written …. π¦π¦ππ€πββοΈπ
God Bless You, today and always…
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Awwβ¦ thanks, brother. It hits kind of close to home for me, a very good friend has early onset dementia and itβs heartbreaking. I thought Iβd try to put a positive spin on it. Thank you, my friend, for reading and the kind comment. May God bless you as you continue leading people to Jesus with your words πβ€οΈπ
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Sending Prayers for you both. Mal will be in my prayers…
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Heartbreakingly beautiful, Darryl. Just… wow!
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Thanks, Jean! Iβm so glad you liked it. Thanks for reading and the lovely commentβ¦ Hope you have a great weekend! π
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Sounds good
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Well written. Emotional
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Thank you, Priti! Iβm glad you enjoyed it. Thanks much for reading and commenting π
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What a beautiful story! You write so descriptively, I felt so much, the cold , the sounds, the warmth that he felt from the vision of his wife. It may give some folks some peace and comfort if they have a family member dealing with this disease.
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Thank you! This does hit kinda close to home, a good friend is suffering from early-onset dementia. I wanted to put a loving side to it, Iβm so glad you gleaned that. Thanks for reading and the kind comment πβ€οΈ
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This amazing story is fascinating to me, Darryl, so well written, with an ending that jabs at my heart and mind.
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Awwβ¦ man, thatβs a nice compliment, Tim. Thanks so much for reading and the comment. Iβm glad you liked it. Hope you have a blessed Sunday ππ
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I noticed one word over and over in your comments: Beautiful. Just beautiful.
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Aww! Thanks, my friend. Iβm glad that folks enjoyed it. Thanks for reading and the kind words ππ
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That’s a beautiful story, Darryl, and the ending … It’s so good to think that people with dementia might get some sort of happy ending/be restored to themselves in a next life – I did it briefly to a character in one of my books. That experience of being reunited with somethting which was such a large part of one’s life many years ago, as well as all the memories related to it – it does happen. Last summer Glen and I were at the motor racing venue which we attend frequently; we saw a car in a vintage race which was exactly like Glen’s mother’s car which we used to use when we were dating, and for a while we thought it was the car, bought and done up to race after all these years. It proved not to be that car, but for a while those memories were out there. Wonderful that you’ve tapped into that area of life for this story, and thanks so much for sharing, my friend. Stay safe and have a good week. π
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Laura, you always provide the best feedbackβ¦ thanks for the thoughtful comments. Iβd like to think that there is room somewhere in that remarkable 3-lb mass of nerves for favorite memories to escape unscathed. Itβs so interesting about your race carβ¦ our brain like a computer of sorts with odd/old file fragments just waiting to be dredged upβ¦ I mean, sounds like the instant you both saw the car, you thought the same thing.
As you know, my best friend from college is struggling with early onset dementia and itβs so sadβ¦ I was trying to think of a way for him and others to muster through and find some joy stillβ¦ I think about your friend who went through Parkinsonβs so rapidly and sadly. I hope my story didnβt dredge up any sad emotions for folks, that wasnβt what I intended.
Off topic, but in my struggle to declutter, I was going through old emails (cut the 45K in half so farβyay!) and found some notifications from 2024 from a lady I used to follow. She was a pensioner, lived in Kent, decided to move to move to Northumberland where she didnβt know a soulβ¦ her health was not great but she was interesting. I was thinking of her several months ago and couldnβt find her in the list of people to whom I subscribe. Found her in my old emails, searched for her on WPβ¦ no recordβ¦went to her website, no longer active. I know youβve been going through the winter blahs and I guess I have been tooβ¦ I got so sad, thinking of this poor old soul, a newcomer in the opposite corner of England, trying to gain tractionβ¦ and now apparently gone. Too bad Sue and I canβt meet you and G at the local pub, think we could use a βtoothfulβ as Dr. Herriot used to sayβ¦ maybe even a yard. π Tried that once, hoo boy, that alone is worthy of a postβ¦
Sorry for the verbosity, itβs gray and below freezing here and I just get carried away. π Thx again for the kind words and you stay safe as well, my friend π
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It is difficult Darryl, when our dear ones fall victim to this awful condition. The last time we saw our friend Chris he was speaking to us, rather incoherently in a whisper, so we couldn’t understand him. He was trying to communicate though; and then he took my hand, and wouldn’t let it go until I had to leave. I like to think that the physical contact gave him comfort, so if all you can do for your friend when things get bad is a handhold, or a hug, then go for it, if they don’t resist. It probably will mean a lot more than you think. Sorry too about your friend who moved away; it’s a downside of online friendships, I’m afraid. Glen, early on in his work on our respective family trees, made contact with a distant relative in Utah, a lady in her 80s who was very helpful and friendly. They formed a good relationship for a few years … and then Mary Beth disappeared. He suspected, but didn’t know for sure until her son posted a notice on her account to all her acquaintances. Very sad, but such is life, and Glen was pleased to know her for the time they had. It is a dull and grey time of year, and a pity we can’t all get together by a roaring fire in a pub somewhere. It may happen though, you never know. Life’s funny that way. Keep smiling, Darryl, and keep going. Not long till spring. Stay safe and take care, my friend. π
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Iβve been hearing about people I know suffering from Alzheimerβs. Itβs something that feels like we have no control over when it hits. Itβs a frightening scenario and I wondered if Iβll ever be hit with it. Reading this gave me some comfort.
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GenXer, thanks for the feedback. That what I was trying to portray, thereβs always hope and at the end, redemption. My old college buddy seems to have stabilized and itβs the short-term stuff he struggles withβ¦ but his recollection of our UF days is still going strong π Thereβs always new research breakthroughs and treatmentsβ¦ just not too many special β49 Ford pickups π
Thanks again, my friend for reading and the comment. Hope the rest of your weekend is great ππ΄ππ»ββοΈ
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i’ve had patients with early onset dementia and it makes me wonder if they’ll start testing mutated genes PSEN1,2, or APP, specially for those who have a family hx of it. till then, i guess i’m waiting for CRISPR to become approved for treatment. i think having those positive core memories is also what’s going to keep people going too.
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Is there anything they can do for vascular dementia? I think thatβs the kind my UF friend has. I think heβs taking Nortriptylene, Risperdal, and Aricept.
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i’ve heard of stem cell therapies that they’re trying in clinical studies but it’s important that your friend is able to stabilize the condition by decreasing the risk for strokes or TIAs. sounds like your friend may be exhibiting mood symptoms and possible hallucinations or agitation. if there are activities that can keep his mind engaged (depending on the progression) like puzzles, card games, crosswords or word searches, journaling, listening to fav songs, talking about current events (but this might be stressful) or the current weather, reading, video chats. if he’s able to, keep it short like 15-30 min and social interaction is helpful too.
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Rojie, thatβs great adviceβ¦ thanks so much. Iβll talk to his wife and make sure that these types of things are included in his daily regimen. Thanks again my friendβ¦ much appreciated ππ
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yw!
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Through the majority of my nursing career, I was a specialist in dementia care. I assisted communities to set up specialty units in their care homes for those too advanced to remain in their own homes. In addition, I trained families, staff, and other health care workers in appropriate approach methods, depending on the stage of dementia they were dealing with and the illness causing the dementia symptoms. A big part of what I taught was to try to empathize with the person with dementia – to try to walk in their shoes. Thatβs not an easy thing to do. Your post did just that, Darryl. Your empathy showed through big time. Well done!
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Terry, thanks so much for the kind words, and for dedicating your life/career to dealing so lovingly to those afflicted with this horrible illness. My friend, who suffers from vascular dementia, is currently plateaued, albeit with the loss of certain things he used to enjoy. As I understand it, itβs a step functionβ¦ periods of stability, then a drop, followed by more stability at a lower level. How sad π’ If itβs OK, I might bounce an idea or two off you at some point as I keep tabs on him at a distance (he lives in a diff state).
Thanks again for reading my story and your kind wordsβ¦ so very much appreciated πβ€οΈ
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Iβd be happy to help however I can, Darryl. Keep in mind that Iβve been retired for coming up on twelve years now, so medications, and other management approaches will have no doubt changed in that time. Iβm confident that the basics in human interaction will remain the same for a very long time.
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What a moving story, Darryl B. My mother passed away with vascular dementia. It was such a terrible experience to watch someone be so tormented in their mind. Terrible things happened to her. Maybe someday I will find a way to share them here. She expressed love to me but I lived 11 hours away and wasnβt there βtelling her what to doβ. My siblings were the ones who had to make sure she was properly cared for so she expressed hate towards them. Dementia/Alzheimerβs seems to be on the upward. That is scary to think about. Thanks for a brilliant story.
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I realize I did write a short version about my mom. Here is the link:
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Andi, I read your postβ¦ how truly sad and demoralizing. I canβt imagine the pain you and your family suffered. Climbing through windows, cops, irate familyβ¦.oh man π’
I didnβt know that sugar is bad for brain healthβ¦ Iβve got quite a sweet tooth esp when watching TV. Thanks for pointing that outβ¦ and good on you for enduring your momβs wrath, recognizing that it wasnβt her who was saying these horrible things. That was truly a tough cross to bear. Blessings to you, my friendβ¦ πβ€οΈ
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Thanks, Darryl. My mom was known by everyone as sweet Helen. She taught us three kids how to be kind. I miss her so much. Iβm sorry about your friend. I will keep your friend in prayer. I donβt need a name. God knows who Iβm praying for.
If I can find it, I will share with you something beautiful about my mom. I donβt think I posted it. But Iβll look. β₯οΈ
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I found the post: http://coffeewithandi.com/2023/04/17/my-mom/
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I did post it! π
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Andi, thanks so much for reading and the thoughtful comment. I agree, I never used to hear that much about dementia/Alzheimerβs β¦ sometimes grandparents or older folks would get βeccentricβ or βpeculiar,β or at the worst, βsenileββ¦ but institutionalization or dedicated at-home care was very rare. Now it seems to mainstreamed.
Iβm so sorry about your Momβ¦ they donβt know what theyβre saying, so any anger or unkindness towards you is tempered by their disease. Still, it hurts and it doesnβt leave very positive memories. Iβm concerned bc my friend has the vascular dementia variety and the progression you described sounds horrible. Geez. π«€
Thanks again, my friend, for reading and the kind wordsβ¦much appreciated ππ
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You are an awesome writer. Please tell me who this Kevin is that is mentioned prior to your stories.
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Andi, thanks so much for those kind words π
Kevin was a regular poster on WordPress until a few months ago. A link to his site is in the intro section of my story. On βNo Theme Thursdayβ heβd post 12-15 pix he came up with and the challenge was to pick one and create a story to go with it.
He dropped out of sight and we havenβt heard from him since. He mentioned a few health issues and a lot of job stressβ¦weβre hoping heβs OK and that he returns soon. He was/is a good guy πβ€οΈ
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This is such a full and lustrous tale of a life. I come from a long line of dementia- and have no reason to expect it will not claim me someday. I only hope I have the courage and vivid imagination you imbued on your MC. So well told, Darryl.
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Violet, thanks so much. From what youβve written before about your times in Florida, I think weβre roughly the same age. Iβm hoping if there are indeed storm clouds on your horizon, they wonβt manifest at least for another 15 years. I really enjoy reading your stories and poems and hoping to be able to read them until God calls me home.
Bless you, my friendβ¦ May your skies always be blue β€οΈπ
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This is such a moving story, Darryl, with so much heart. I loved it, and especially the ending. Perfect.
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Awwβ¦ thank you, my friend. Iβm so glad you liked it! Thanks for reading and the kind commentsβ¦much appreciated πβ€οΈπ
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I found the post about the beautiful ending to my momβs story.
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AndI, no words π’ That is so horribly sad. Iβm glad she had a peaceful departure and is at rest; I wonder what her friend across the hall sawβ¦did angels come for your mom? There are times when the veil separating us from the spiritual realm thin to the point where we can almost hear and see loved ones whoβve passedβ¦ I wouldnβt be surprised if this was the case. It was beautifully written, so much tenderness and love for this person who was formerly so caring. β€οΈππ
But what you went throughβ¦ oh man. How long did it take from the original diagnosis till the end? My friend was diagnosed about two years ago. Heβs not agitated, but struggles with depression, anxiety and cognitive ability. He no longer drives and has some short term memory issues. IDK what to expect, but I guess each case is differentβ¦?
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Thank you for your sweet words. It was a difficult time for sure. It was frustrating because it took so very long to get a diagnosis. My brother and sister went through so much to get all the legal and medical stuff taken care of. It took way longer than it should have. We couldnβt take her car away, get guardianship, or do anything until that diagnosis. I remember getting in the car with her that last time. I was visiting for her 70th birthday. I white-knuckled it the whole drive. I told my siblings I would never get in the car with her again. But she was having a great time behind the wheel. Before she had kids she wanted to race stock cars. I believe she was reliving that dream. I donβt know why I didnβt insist on driving. When we got the diagnosis she was furious that we took her car and started making big decisions for her. She had just enough βwellβ mind left to cause her such grief and anger. My mom was so very tormented in her mind. But she passed so peacefully. It was probably a good two years from actual diagnosis to her passing. It may have been closer to 3. Iβm not sure. She passed at 74. Too young.
And yes, the angels were going to Momβs room. Jerome knew as soon as the woman said she saw the angels that he needed to check my mom. Iβm not sure how I feel about that. Iβd like to think that is real and thatβs what I treasure in my heart, but itβs also confusing to me.
I am thinking of your friend. And, yes, every situation is quite different. Praying on their behalf.
Write another story soon. π
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Andi—I tried to leave a comment on your story, but was unable to—however, I did read it, and it was so lovely, and sad, and hopeful all at the same time. Your mom seems like a wonderful woman. I love the story at the end about the woman who didn’t get to go with the angels, but your mom did–so precious! Thank you!
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Thank you so much, Katie. I really appreciate that you took the time to read it and to respond. My mom was a great mom. Her life was never easy, especially being married to my dad, but there was zero doubt of her love for me and my siblings. She made the best of every situation. There was great sadness when she passed but a greater joy that her tormented mind was finally at peace. Again, thank you. β₯οΈ
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Sending you love and hugs!
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Wow. This is great writing, and a wonderful, and emotional story, Darryl. I didn’t know where this was going due to the tragedy of the diagnosis, but what a great resolution. I loved the emotional homecoming and love overcoming the misery. What great work, as always!
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Thank you, my friend! Iβm so glad you liked it. I tried to keep the reader guessing and Iβm glad I kept you in suspense π Thanks for the really nice comment, much appreciated. Hope your week is great! π
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This was wonderful. Thank you! The details are amazing–what a gripping story. Filled with emotion, and truth and hope! So good!
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Katie, thank you for the kind words. Iβm glad you liked it.
Thanks again for reading and the nice comment. I hope you have a great weekend! π
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Thank you Darryl! I hope you have a great weekend too! π
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That ending was so touching, wow great story.
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Awww! Thanks, Pooja, that was a really compliment. Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for reading ππ
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You’re most welcome! π
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