I live in North Carolina, but in my heart, Florida will always be home.
Not that there’s anything wrong with NC; the people are lovely, there are beaches and mountains only 2-3 hours away; there’s a change of seasons. After 28 years in the Old North State, a fire in the fireplace is still a novelty.
But like spawning salmon who instinctively want to get back to their home waters, I often feel the tug of my home state. I can be there in six hours. But my kids are here, their roots are here, they’ll likely never leave. So likely, neither will my me or my wife.
So, many years ago, I added a little Florida to our yard by way of a bald cypress tree. I planted Charlie the Cypress tree 50 feet away from our new house, fertilized him, watered him, built a little wall around his base and filled it with mulch.
Like the Charlie Brown Christmas tree, Charlie flourished. I noticed as I cut the grass that his trunk grew wider and wider. He eventually towered over the other trees and what once seemed like a safe distance for a tiny sapling, fifty feet seemed to be uncomfortably close for grown-up Charlie.
Cypress roots travel along underground, then pop up into what are called knees. One day, my wife calls me outside. I see cypress knees pushing up around the HVAC slab, 70 or 80 feet away. Uh oh.
I tried to dig down and sever the problematic roots, but as fast as I severed one, another one would appear. Charlie would have to come down; the foundation could be jeopardized.

I couldn’t stand to watch the tree folks do their thing last Fall, but afterwards I stood over the stump with sadness. I counted the rings; twenty. It was two decades ago that I planted him, two decades that flew by in a glorious kaleidoscope of kids being born and raised, vacations, birthdays and Christmases. It all went by so fast.
Today’s blog prompt asks where I’ll be in half that time.
Hopefully, playing with my grandkids, still strumming my guitar, traveling, charity work, surfing, enjoying the fruits of my working years.
But in reality, no clue. Only God knows, and He has mercifully shielded that knowledge from me.
“We all end up dead; it’s just a question of how and why.” ~ William Wallace, Braveheart
I am sorry about Charlie, the Cypress tree. I easily get attached to the special things in life, too and it’s a painful but necessary lesson we learn sooner or later, that nothing lasts forever in this life, apart from our Father in heaven and His Son, and their love for us.
I live in Central Florida, and have been contemplating a move to a less expensive state. I have lived here for the past 38 years and have grown to love the unique flora and fauna, the history, the traditions and the people. I’m not sure if I can move at this point, because of all that. So, I empathize with you.
I really enjoyed your writing style and post. Take care.
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Thanks, Tricia! Appreciate the kind words and I look forward to reading more of your content 😎
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Wow. I love this story. The tree part is so profound. Sorry you lost your tree. Hope the next 10 years are full of whatever your heart desires.
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Aww! Thx Dee! Appreciate you reading and commenting 😎
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Thank you for this great read. I know how you feel about your heart being somewhere else when you’re living away from a place that’s familiar and dear to you. Too bad about Charlie, but what else could you do?
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Terry, yeah, I was concerned about the foundation. I should have planted him much further away 😞
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I get attached to trees too, our neighbours cut some really old trees and I was sad for like a week lol.
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I didn’t realize you are in NC. I attended college in Winston-Salem and served churches near Salisbury, Durham, and Fayetteville. Now that I’m close to the NC mountains, I visit frequently (especially since one of my sons attends college in Hendersonville).
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That’s great! The Fall colors in the mountains are beautiful 🙂
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