About ten years ago, I was flying down to Florida to see my dad. He was in the hospital, and my brother had called to say he wasn’t doing well. His voice had an ominous tone; my dad was in his late eighties and had been going downhill for several months.
As we flew, I gazed out the window and reflected on all the things we had done as a family. My mom had died three years earlier and it seemed everything was just going way too fast. All our trips, vacations, dinner conversations…funny things, poignant things, Christmases and birthdays…all behind us now. I thought about my dad and how much he loved aviation. I had a idea.
I deliberately dawdled in getting my stuff from the overhead bin. I was the last one out, and the Captain was standing by the cockpit door with a smile. I asked him if I could snap a quick picture of the cockpit, even though I figured it would not be allowed.
He looked at me a little funny and I explained that my dad was in the hospital, he was a B-29 pilot and tomorrow was his birthday. His expression changed and not only did he let me take a picture, he insisted that I sit in his seat, positioned me just so and took several pix.
I stopped at CVS on my way to the hospital and printed the picture. I bought a little frame and gave it to him. He must have examined it for ten minutes, lost in time.

Don’t know who that kind pilot was, but he sure put a smile on my dad’s face. The picture is now next to my workbench. I look at it frequently and remember Pop’s reaction.
Little acts of kindness make such a difference; and the ripple effects–like rings on a pond–continue on long after.
I wish more people understood.
Very cool. I’m glad your dad got a boost out of that. 🙂
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Thanks, Silk 😎
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That’s super sweet. My Dad loves aviation too (retired navigator and pilot) and is in his mid 80s so I can totally understand. I’m glad that pilot helped you to give your Dad a good memory and something of interest to him.
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Thank you 😎
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Acts of kindness like that one make the biggest difference. Kindness can truly heal the world if we just make a little more effort to be kind. He could have said no for the picture but he said yes and that made your dad so happy.
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Thanks Pooja! Yeah, I was really surprised, he might have gotten in trouble… but he knew what he was doing would make an old fellow pilot happy on his BD. Am sure Karma smiled on him 🙂
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I’m sure it will, when you do good it always comes back to you 😀
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That is a cool memory and I’m glad you were able to do that for your dad.Shout out to the pilot as well.
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Thank you! Yeah, the pilot could have gotten in trouble… but then rules are really more like “guidelines”… at least, that’s how some people see them.
Thanks for the comment! 😎
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Love this story Darryl.
Good Dads are life and it’s amazing to see them get to enjoy something they always wanted or just to see them smile period.
Good memories to cherish for forever.
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Thanks,Ash!
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O.. He took a risk there… so kind of him.. thanks for sharing the heartwarming memory 🥲
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So many people are so caught up in themselves that they forget what a difference being kind to each other makes. It doesn’t take that much effort. Well done to that pilot for his humanity. 🙂
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You made me cry on this one, Darryl! I have the special framed “Spirit of Saint Louis” sketch and “10 cent” airmail stamp/envelope I gave my Grandfather Ulyate when I was in my 20s (postmark says: LINDBERGH AGAIN FLIES THE AIR MAIL 2/21/1928.) Did I know then that I would inherit the treasure I bought for him? It never crossed my mind. But it graces the wall in my office — and I know it had to have meant a lot to him, too. So fantastic the ties we have with those who flew before us :))) Best! Dawn
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Awww! Love that! Uncanny how much we have in common…including our relationships with our dads. Thx for the comment, my friend 😎
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Hi Darryl . Very moving and it was good of you to share it. I think kindness is one of the best things about being human, but sadly underrated. If we all tried to do just one kind thing every day, and that includes being kind to ourselves, the world would be a much better place.
MJ
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MJ, agree and great point about including ourselves. Thanks for commenting 😎
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Beautiful story, beautifully written. 👌
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Thank you! 😎
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Wonderful memory ❤
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Thanks, Julie! Yes, it was 😎❤️
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